羅吉斯心理諮商所-婚姻 憂鬱症 恐慌症 人格檢測(推薦專業) - Wenshan District

Someone finally understood me, and finally someone saw my pain. I didn’t bother to enlighten me after receiving my survival call in the early morning. Teacher Gao gave me a hand when I was most desperate and told me to cooperate with the treatment method he proposed. It will improve. The effect of the consultation was obvious at the beginning. Even the doctor was surprised that the medicine could be stopped. However, my heart easily fluctuates and I often need Teacher Gao to pull it back. I have seen a lot of psychologists. Teacher Gao is really different. The way he helps you is very specific. Just do it, because we are already confused and do not have the energy to think about what to do. It is more practical than empty cheering. .

Last year, because of problems at work, I consulted with a psychologist in the hospital, but at that time I did not find the right psychologist. I mistakenly thought that my depression and anxiety symptoms were getting better, so I went to the next job immediately. I was in depression and anxiety. Working under the symptoms of, caused me to make a very serious mistake, which may hurt others, but I did not deal with this mistake at the moment, and I condemned and felt guilty for more than a year, until this year I have bad thoughts, like falling into I couldn’t climb out of a black hole, so I found Teacher Gao’s consultation office on the Internet. When I first consulted my counselor, Mr. Gao pointed out very professionally why I did this because I was beaten and scolded by my parents when I was a child. I had to forgive myself and talk to sports and inner children to find out hobbies. I did it later. After I did it, I felt that I slowly crawled out of the black hole. A few days ago, when I had bad thoughts again, I called the teacher and pulled me out of the black hole again.

I came here when I was in a bad state. The teacher said that I can help me half, and I need to rely on myself for the other half. By being guided to understand why I am the way I am, I also get the help I need here. Not everyone needs the same counseling, and I've been lucky enough to be productive here. Thank you, teacher.

Hello, Mr. Xu. After reading your po's article on high psychologists, I felt very shocked and sad. Because you continued to post and said that it was the free response of others, I also want to stand up and share my personal life Feelings: I used to be the case of Teacher Gao and a member of the secret society. I committed suicide due to poor physical and mental health many years ago. After receiving consultation from Teacher Gao, I have the courage and strength to live and face the difficulties in life. . Here I want to clarify a few points: 1. Private Society: At the end of the consultation, Mr. Gao also invited me to join the private club. I am still in this club today. The purpose of the club is to allow us to have another in the face of adversity in life after the consultation is over. The channel for expressing negative emotions obtains spiritual comfort through the encouragement of the members of the community. Teacher Gao also plays the role of supervision, participating in and giving advice in time. This is also the free after-sales service provided by Mr. Gao to the patients. The cost of psychological consultation is very expensive. I am sincerely grateful to Mr. Gao for providing such a channel, which also saved me a lot of consultation fees. This is beyond doubt fact. 2. Hold a book club Members of this society and Teacher Gao often share some related books that help self-understanding and growth. Let members read together, and freely participate in the book clubs held according to their own wishes, so that everyone can find their own interests through reading . It was through reading that I became interested in psychology. I wanted to know more about why only talking with people can have such a great effect, so I decided to continue studying. I am still studying in university because I want to learn more about it. Like Teacher Gao, I have the opportunity to work on helping others. I firmly believe that those who have suffered in their hearts can empathize and feel the pain of others. 3. Teacher Gao will also invite everyone to go cycling outdoors to cultivate good interpersonal interaction and exercise habits. These activities will help us practice how to develop good interpersonal interaction with people and cultivate regular exercise habits. Whenever I am in a bad mood, through my self-awareness, I can always get out of the house and exercise in time before getting caught up in the horns. My mood has also improved and my thoughts have become more positive. Therefore, cultivating the habit of exercise has benefited me a lot. I don’t know the teacher’s knowledge of BPD. As far as I am concerned, BPD patients often show self-harm when facing adversities in life, and it is very difficult to maintain good interpersonal interaction with others. In my cognition, Mr. Gao's private contacts with members are from the heart and sincere for the good of others. It is an altruistic approach as a starting point. Even if it violates the ethics of consultation, he is still willing to do so. 4. There are many schools of psychological counseling. I believe that no one school of treatment can be applied to everyone. Just like when we see a doctor when we are sick, not every doctor’s diagnosis is in our minds, but we also Wouldn't it be deemed that the doctor is not suitable? How to find a counselor and school of counseling that suits you is your own subject. Although the original family can shape the formation of personality, if you want to become the kind of person you like, you need to rely on your own efforts to save yourself. Rather than deifying the counselor or doctor, to put it bluntly, both doctors and counselors are mortals, and each has its own life issues. Even the famous Owen Yaron feels that he is facing the issues between himself and his mother. Weak, let alone those of us in the market? 5. The authenticity of the letter's statement Teacher Xu, you mentioned in your Facebook reply that you have verified the authenticity of the content recorded by the letter. I would like to ask the teacher how did you verify it? Is there a specific method for everyone to publicly examine its fairness and authenticity? My request like this may be a bit impolite, but I think that these articles that you have posted in good faith, in addition to the huge negative impact on Teacher Gao, may also cause a second time to the letter. hurt? Have you ever imagined the consequences of cyber bullying, irrational public opinion, and netizens’ keyboard handling of cases? Are you able to bear these social costs and responsibilities? There is still a lot I want to say about the field of psychological counseling, but I have to omit it because of the length. However, I am convinced that if you have a relevant counseling background, Mr. Xu, your approach is absolutely different from this, and you must take the benefit of the individual Priority consideration. Finally, I want to say to Teacher Gao, thank you for your dedication to the case, because of your consultation and encouragement, let me believe that my suffering and life are of value, and because the teacher’s consultation has made me Life has changed tremendously. Life has become ideal and purposeful. Learn to regain control of one's life, strive to live and face all kinds of adversities in life bravely. Maybe I’m just one of many cases of a teacher. The teacher may not remember who I am, but the teacher has a huge influence on me and makes me want to work hard for myself. Just like the teacher said at the time, you even die. Don't be afraid, are you afraid to give yourself another chance to live? Teacher Xu, this letter of mine authorizes you to openly let everyone read it. I also hope that all netizens can view the whole incident rationally and objectively, learn to be responsible for their own online comments, and whether they can think more before questioning others. Did this remark also unknowingly become the perpetrator of the next victim?

It took a long time to write this comment because I wanted to prove through time whether this consultation can really continue into the days to come. Probably I accepted a consultation from Teacher Gao in February this year. At first, I saw that there is a part of treating personality disorders here before I decided to try it. I am a student who graduated from the Department of Psychology, but during the four years of university I received counseling therapy for nearly two years. I remember the professor once said at the beginning of enrollment: "People in this department either treat others or are treated." However, I didn't expect that I might be the latter. In learning, the more I get in touch, the more I realize that I may have some problems, but I always think of what the professor said that I can’t diagnose it easily, I am afraid that I am labeling myself, and I am even more afraid that I am different from others. Once I didn’t believe that counseling could solve the problem. After two years of counseling at school, they only tried to convert the ideas in my mind into the so-called "normal". They even felt what the other party was trying to use in the process. Skill, it feels like a white mouse in the experiment. In the process of consulting with Teacher Gao, the most unforgettable thing for me was that I kept asking him: "Is this kind of a different kind of me? Is it different from others? Should I try to be like others, or just maintain I look abnormal?" Teacher Gao told me: "Then why is it normal to be like others? Everything about you was created to protect yourself. Maybe it is because of its existence that allowed you to persist until now. "Tears burst into my eyes at that moment. In the process, I constantly felt that I was actually not as indifferent as I thought. I remember that the reason why I sought Teacher Gao at the beginning was that I felt that I was derailed from the world, as if I was living in a play, and every scene was a plot, and I only needed to finish the play, and if I got out of that scene, I would immediately withdraw all my feelings. , As if the actor is out of play. At that time, I said to Teacher Gao: "I feel as if given me some time, I can forget everything. If I forget, I won’t be sad, but it also becomes impossible to remember even if I want to remember." , I was just too afraid of being hurt, so I chose to avoid my feelings, put my emotions in my heart, and faked the appearance that I had forgotten. There are many other processes that I have forgotten, but I still remember that the teacher told me to cultivate a few interests, go out more often, and make time to chat with myself every day. Although these things are not as many times as expected in the future, I do feel that I have become different. This part is very grateful, at least I took a different step. I'm not sure if this kind of counseling is suitable for everyone, but he did improve me a lot. At least my borderline personality behaviors that are often out of control have got a lot of intellectual control. In the end, thank you very much for being affirmed in this place. I think...maybe sometimes, I just want to be affirmed that I am the real me like this, instead of constantly telling myself that I want to become "normal."

The first time I came into contact with psychological counseling, I was full of hope to open the knot in my child's heart for thousands of years. As a result, you say, wait for you to get better and then come to me, and push a child with depression into the abyss. She thought she was very serious, and even the counselor didn't want to treat her. If she has the ability to heal herself, why bother to seek treatment? It was a big slap on my face. The money was spent and it did hurt the child even more. It made the two of us even more helpless and not sure what to do! If you knew that you didn't come, you should think twice before asking other people to consult!

I experienced a very heartbroken breakup last summer. I was lucky enough to find Teacher Gao and did 6 consultations here. At that time, I really felt that I had no meaning, but in the process of consultation, the teacher helped me find the reason why I was so unable to let go. In addition to myself, the partner who broke up also had narcissistic personality traits. Following the teacher's advice, I started to take care of myself, love myself, and talk to the children in my heart. I also followed the teacher's advice to find other interests, sports, and so on. Over the past year or so, I myself have done more to learn and understand the narcissistic personality. I understand that only by loving myself can I find happiness. I really appreciate Teacher Gao’s consultation. He gave me directions and took me out of the gloom. Today, I can get along with myself peacefully and live a normal life. All this is thanks to the teacher's consultation.

I have come here for many years to receive counseling. During the process, the counselor made a lot of subjective and arbitrary remarks (for example, it is easy to identify as a borderline personality?_?, please I am not at all). In the next few years, with the help of different counselors, I can have a deeper understanding of treating myself well, and in the process I also feel what an objective, patient and non-arbitrary conversation is. I don’t know if the counselor has changed now, but when friends who are engaged in psychological counseling mentioned the negative comments of the counselor, I can only laugh and say it’s not surprising