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Teacher Ouyang is a very good teacher. Thank him for listening and giving professional advice and guidance. I am very, very grateful.

Three years ago, I trusted your profession and consulted several courses. In order for my children to have a complete family, I decided to endure the humiliation and follow your methods and principles and strive to maintain family harmony. Today, three years later, I will write a review again. Although I dare not say precise analysis, I try my best to restore the situation and express my own feelings for the visitors' reference. You have effectively maintained a peaceful relationship for three years, during which time my wife and my family no longer had major disputes, so my wife is very satisfied with you. I listened to what you said that the values ​​of the two are very different and it is inherently difficult to get along. Therefore, I no longer adhere to the principle of responsibility and no longer ask my wife to fulfill family responsibilities. I will take care of everything she does not want to do and follow her. She asked for extra money to rent a house, and persuaded her family not to hold her accountable. However, the contradiction between each other has not been resolved. The wife seems to have you endorsed her childish behavior to rationalize her, she still uses her phone all day long, online shopping is full of every corner of the house, the refrigerator is full of leftover food, and the desk is full of use. Used toilet paper and debris...waiting for me to deal with it. The clothes are several times more than mine, but I am only responsible for pouring the clothes into the washing machine. After that, the clothes are dried, folded, folded, and left alone, and if I don’t Remind me that I would forget to wash my own underwear, and then grab my underwear to wear. Bringing children can only rely on mobile phones. The educational toys and board games bought for my son are completely immobile. When I accompany my son to do his homework, he slides on his mobile phone while having fun. If he can't learn to call, he will bring me to my company and let me go to work and teach by myself. Slide the phone. Can you imagine it? My son goes to bed every night and asks me to accompany me instead of my mother. What is the cause and effect of this? She said she was under pressure to avoid meeting with my family. Inviting her to a party was also an excuse to dodge, and she did not act to reconcile. If I don’t remind me, I’ll be ignorant of my relatives and friends, and I should also give some gifts to each other in the workplace. Otherwise, I’ve never thought about how to be a favor, and remind you that she has been working for more than 10 years. In the past three years, I have tolerated too many situations, but it is generally enough that you can imagine it at this point. Do you remember the situation of your consultation and treatment at that time? You specifically mentioned a few key words: "What is the fact is not important", "The relationship should be equal." Then how to deal with it equally? Even the mediation committee knows that both parties should step back to negotiate a consensus price. What does the counselor do in my opinion? It’s like helping my wife get a divorce to force me to retreat, threatening me time and time again, "Then you should get a divorce," and put pressure on me, who is willing to be wronged and able to bear the concession, but to my wife’s waywardness. , Naive, stubborn, deceptive but helpless? Do you want to blame me for slandering and reversing right and wrong? If so, let me talk about how I feel about my wife first, can you do the same? Then come to verify the authenticity! Do you remember? The day before my grandmother’s public sacrifice, I wanted to prevent my wife from making unreasonable self-harm, which caused my wife to be pulled and injured by me. You did not ask me what I passed by. After listening to my wife’s dictation, you denounced me in person, saying that domestic violence is not allowed. But when I invited you to confirm together, you also individually confirmed my wife’s inertial lie and gossip afterwards, but it was an understatement, "The liar is because he dare not tell the truth." You asked me to be considerate of her pressure and give her something. Willing to tell the truth. Is that right? Is it my responsibility for others to be dishonest? Oh! I almost forgot. This is because, as you said, "What is the truth does not matter"! For the sake of my children, I will continue to maintain superficial harmony, continue to endure my wife for another 12 years, and work hard to maintain the family and enhance my self-worth, while secretly making preparations. After 12 years, when the child matures independently, I will come to the court to petition for divorce. Of course, this will inevitably be a retaliatory divorce. Thank you for helping me write such a wonderful chapter in my life. The above, I am not sure whether it is caused by your professionalism, just as you will not directly correct the misjudgment when you consult with me, but use various professional terms to avoid the general, which makes me very confused. And although I was not sure whether you had professional ethics or whether you could empathize with the feelings of the case at the time, in any case, trust your professional title first, and then let time prove everything. But these are only my personal feelings. If you feel uncomfortable, I apologize to you. Just like you said to me "I didn't say you are XXXX, but it sounds like XXXX", the difference is only afterwards I will apologize, but you will not. So please don't mind. Please don't forget, my wife's evaluation of you is very high. I wish business is prosperous postscript I'm still very confused now. I can scold others for being a bastard first, and then slowly say that I just said that it sounds like it, but I didn't say it really is a bastard. Can I justify myself like this? Regardless, all professionals have done this (of course, it is not a bastard), which means it should be possible!